I don't think the first cat will ever calm down around people 

 some strays you should just leave alone and maybe a nice family will be able to coax them into coming in and eating and eventually getting friendly.
Hehe 

 I start laughing just thinking about that other cat 

 in all fairness it seems to have contempt towards its owner before he started playing with it, I'm no cat psychologist though it was probably just mildly annoyed but was pissed off enough at the end to walk away 
 
*hiss growl growl hiss* 

 I love you too Growly 
 
Edit: Just read the full "description" it's not his cat but a friends. Turns out she acts like that towards anyone who isn't the owner 
 
Edit again: funny pic a friend uses as a siggy 
 
