The truth

Aony · Post by **Aony** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 12:32 am

Yugi wrote:i hope so..cause im antisocial and i need to know how to make freinds

That's me too kind of....back in kindergarden, I didn't have any friends at all. So they got another kid in my situation (just he had asthma) and got us to be friends (that only works when you're very little of course). Two years later, he moved out of state and I was all alone again. This lasted until the end of 5th grade (yes, i had no friends for three years) when I moved in with my dad and went to a new school. I made friends with Ashley, a tomboy that lives across the street, and Chris, a slightly hyper dude that was already slight friends with ashley at the time that shared my love of anime. This year, I made friends with Hetty, a chinese girl that everyone thinks is homicidal because of the dark and scary poems she writes. So to date I have three friends, but they're the best I could ever ask for. Someday you'll run into someone too, possibly totally opposite from you, or maybe in the exact same boat as you. And it'll happen when you least expect it.

Aony · Post by **Aony** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 12:33 am

Yugi wrote:

great to see a smile from ya now

I seem to have a way of doing that...but only online it seems. In real life I'm a stuttering clutz with ADD that cant do anything right

Yugi · Post by **Yugi** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 12:35 am

Post by **Tivia** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 12:49 am

Yugi wrote:yeah your right..but i cant help it..people hate me so i thought if i killed myself the world would be a better place..i dont mean to make a big scene of things but i cant tell if what im saying is drama or not..<.> i just want freinds..but all i get are enemies ><

You know something Yugi I do not know if you have read or understood some of my other post's but I have given you clues. Since those have been missed Im going to put it bluntly,

No One Hates you...We however hate the Drama, the constant threats of suicide and other like behavior. You wanted to know what the desperate bids of attention are? Go back and read your post's if you mentioned suicide in it, Hate, rape, american females being whores etc then those post's were exactly what we were referring to.

Now concerning your thought of people hating you..Let me enlighten you to something. I was picked on from kindergarten up, I was never popular, I was always the butt of jokes etc, I can count on 1 hand the number of friends I had the entire time I was in school and have fingers to spare. Honestly it was so bad for me even the unpopular kids picked on me, my school experience was throughly miserable and I do not miss a moment of it. Now with that said I came to a simple relevation one day, I quit caring what other people thought of me. You know what I felt alot better when i realized I honestly did not give a crap what other people thought. Who cares, most of them are shallow insenitive idiots who have the IQ of a rain puddle, I scored the highest SAT in my state who were they to judge me? I get supreme satisfaction now in that most of them, now bag my groceries, Serve my food, mow my lawn, paint my house and wash my car. In a nutshell what other people think of you is wholely and completely irrelevant, most of them will amount to nothing in the real world.

So honestly at this point you are 17..The ball is in your court, you will decide from this point one of two things. #1 that peoples shallow uneducated opinions based in nothing more then a highschool popularity contest which will earn them a job asking if you want Fries with your burger matter to you. or #2 that honestly they are in fact idiots and are not worth your time effort or energy, and that your opinion is the only one that matters and that opinion is based off Real accomplishments and things that matter for real.

Yugi · Post by **Yugi** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 12:54 am

Tivia wrote:
Yugi wrote:yeah your right..but i cant help it..people hate me so i thought if i killed myself the world would be a better place..i dont mean to make a big scene of things but i cant tell if what im saying is drama or not..<.> i just want freinds..but all i get are enemies ><
You know something Yugi I do not know if you have read or understood some of my other post's but I have given you clues. Since those have been missed Im going to put it bluntly,

No One Hates you...We however hate the Drama, the constant threats of suicide and other like behavior. You wanted to know what the desperate bids of attention are? Go back and read your post's if you mentioned suicide in it, Hate, rape, american females being whores etc then those post's were exactly what we were referring to.

Now concerning your thought of people hating you..Let me enlighten you to something. I was picked on from kindergarten up, I was never popular, I was always the butt of jokes etc, I can count on 1 hand the number of friends I had the entire time I was in school and have fingers to spare. Honestly it was so bad for me even the unpopular kids picked on me, my school experience was throughly miserable and I do not miss a moment of it. Now with that said I came to a simple relevation one day, I quit caring what other people thought of me. You know what I felt alot better when i realized I honestly did not give a crap what other people thought. Who cares, most of them are shallow insenitive idiots who have the IQ of a rain puddle, I scored the highest SAT in my state who were they to judge me? I get supreme satisfaction now in that most of them, now bag my groceries, Serve my food, mow my lawn, paint my house and wash my car. In a nutshell what other people think of you is wholely and completely irrelevant, most of them will amount to nothing in the real world.

So honestly at this point you are 17..The ball is in your court, you will decide from this point one of two things. #1 that peoples shallow uneducated opinions based in nothing more then a highschool popularity contest which will earn them a job asking if you want Fries with your burger matter to you. or #2 that honestly they are in fact idiots and are not worth your time effort or energy, and that your opinion is the only one that matters and that opinion is based off Real accomplishments and things that matter for real.

thanks for that

Aony · Post by **Aony** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 12:56 am

Tivia wrote:Now concerning your thought of people hating you..Let me enlighten you to something. I was picked on from kindergarten up, I was never popular, I was always the butt of jokes etc, I can count on 1 hand the number of friends I had the entire time I was in school and have fingers to spare. Honestly it was so bad for me even the unpopular kids picked on me, my school experience was throughly miserable and I do not miss a moment of it. Now with that said I came to a simple relevation one day, I quit caring what other people thought of me. You know what I felt alot better when i realized I honestly did not give a crap what other people thought. Who cares, most of them are shallow insenitive idiots who have the IQ of a rain puddle, I scored the highest SAT in my state who were they to judge me? I get supreme satisfaction now in that most of them, now bag my groceries, Serve my food, mow my lawn, paint my house and wash my car. In a nutshell what other people think of you is wholely and completely irrelevant, most of them will amount to nothing in the real world.

So honestly at this point you are 17..The ball is in your court, you will decide from this point one of two things. #1 that peoples shallow uneducated opinions based in nothing more then a highschool popularity contest which will earn them a job asking if you want Fries with your burger matter to you. or #2 that honestly they are in fact idiots and are not worth your time effort or energy, and that your opinion is the only one that matters and that opinion is based off Real accomplishments and things that matter for real.

You know, I say the same thing constantly to people. Just like my mom's ol' prom queen works at the local gas station/convenience store!

Yugi · Post by **Yugi** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 1:02 am

Aony · Post by **Aony** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 1:35 am

Hey it's true! You know how people wold say in school that those "popular" jerks have no lives? Well it becomes even more true after school!

Yugi · Post by **Yugi** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 1:37 am

Aony · Post by **Aony** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 1:41 am

Ah just love how life does a 180 on ya eh? Cuz think about it: Popular kids end up loser adaults.
Unpoplar kids (i.e. Nerds) usually end up very successful, big houses, comfortable lives, lots of money, retire happy (and early), the whole 9 yards. Now I dont know about you, but I think I can make it through high school as a nerd for that.

Yugi · Post by **Yugi** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 1:43 am

Aony · Post by **Aony** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 1:53 am

Ah and to think, if I was reading my summer reading book like I was supposed to be, I woulda missed out on this whole thing

Yugi · Post by **Yugi** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 3:08 am

Kessa · Post by **Kessa** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 4:58 am

Hell during HS and college I was a small geek who got picked on, and was about the furthest thing from popular that you could get. Now I am a US Marine, I've to mare places and have accomplished more things than probably 90% of the people who thought they were better than me.

The Marines taught me one very important lesson. The only opinion that matters about you is yours. Everyone else can and should kiss your @$$ if they have a problem with the way you look, act, or feel.

To quote a very very awsome Metallica song "Your life is yours to live and Nothing Else Matters"

keep your head up and strive for what You want whatever that maybe.

Yugi · Post by **Yugi** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 5:00 am

thanks.^^

Darkmattre · Post by **Darkmattre** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 7:44 am

I understand where you're coming from Yugi. Sometimes you just think that the world would be a better place if you were someone else.

I can't think of anyone I deal with on a day to day basis that I would really call a "friend"

and Kessa was spot on.

Yugi · Post by **Yugi** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 7:46 am

im over that now i dont want to be a pest about it anymore >.<

Kintrra · Post by **Kintrra** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 9:51 am

{/comfort}

Losfuin · Post by **Losfuin** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 10:52 am

Kessa wrote:The Marines taught me one very important lesson. The only opinion that matters about you is yours. Everyone else can and should kiss your @$$ if they have a problem with the way you look, act, or feel.

Learning that lesson is just about the most important thing anyone can learn; it's after learning that that I think I really started to enjoy life, and enjoy being me. Of course, there's no sense in being an idiot about who you are, but the only person's opinion you should really be fussed about is yourself. It's not worth worrying about the majority of other people.
Strangely enough, once I got a hold on this I started to get popular...

Yugi · Post by **Yugi** » Sat Aug 13, 2005 7:07 pm

hmm..