But here's the thing. We lost a melee, I think it was our WAR, but we had me, a DRK and a RNG besides the mages. (Actually we started with another MNK but he dropped out when he realized he wasn't hitting anything. I'm +STR to the max and using Mithkabobs, while the other MNK had crappy gear and no food. ^^ But I digress).
So anyway, here we were one member short, but really not having that much of a problem anyway because we were being conservative. Then this DRG comes along, walks right up to us, and asks if he can join us. Well, I just assumed the leader would invite him. But everyone ignored the DRG. Then he asked again, and no one said anything, and I'm like, "Erm, why don't we let him join?" The answer was "He wouldn't fit in." WTH? We were doing okay with 5 in our party. Would a DRG have screwed things up? I don't think so. I felt really bad about this. Then the DRG finally said "I guess not" and then left. Not a word from the party leader the whole time.
So what's the deal? This really sucked for me and didn't feel right at all. Can someone tell me why this happened, or was our party leader just a shmuck?
