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Need some ideas
Posted: Thu May 11, 2006 8:55 pm
by Susannah
My mother passed away and I am looking for a way to show how much she means to me and I was looking for ideas.
I can't think of anything because I just feel so empty.
Posted: Thu May 11, 2006 10:46 pm
by Kopopo
Uhhh
*no idea how to respond so offers a hug*
Posted: Fri May 12, 2006 12:08 am
by Tianshii
Firstly, *hug*
As for ideas, do you have video of her? Maybe a montage set to her favorite song (or a song that reminds you of her) of still and moving images of your mother.
Or, you could have her friends, co-workers, other family members put a fund together and donate some sizeable to sum to your mothers favorite charity in her name.
Posted: Fri May 12, 2006 12:45 am
by Keavy
First off, take some time to grieve. You need to do that first and foremost. After that look for a way to honor her. Make an album of pictures, collect videos, maybe have people write down stories about her and write your own.
Also, keep a journal. One lady I know writes her parents letters and keeps them, kind of like a journal.
Oh, and *Hugs*
Posted: Tue May 16, 2006 8:54 pm
by Karou Ariyen
*hugs* I dont know what more to really give to help you, but I could fly my b/f there and you could hug each other since ya both lost a loved one ^^; Seriously, I wish you the best ebcuase I've never been good at stuff like this, but Take time to say goodbye and remember that bit from the lion king.... somethin about a buncha dead guys lookin down on us hehe, seriously, I'm sorry and wish i could help you feel better
Posted: Tue May 16, 2006 10:44 pm
by Alya Mizar (Tsybil)
Little things can help a lot. Plant her favorite flower some place she liked.
If she ever took walks with you travel the same paths and think on what she said.
If you cooked together, make something she showed you how to cook.
The same for any other often shared fun activity. If she showed you how to fix cars, you don't have to break something, a simple tune up will sufice. You can probably skip laundry no mater how often you did that together.
/big hugs
Re: Need some ideas
Posted: Sat Mar 16, 2024 3:56 am
by xaresity
Re: Need some ideas
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